7 Signs You’re Chasing An A**hole
Let’s be real. If you clicked on this article, you already know the answer. But just to assure you, here are 7 signs that the dude you’re currently crushing on isn’t worth your time.
1. You feel like you’re pursuing him
You don’t normally go after dudes, you let them come to you, right? If you feel like you’re putting extra effort in to try to win over this dudes, that’s not a good sign. It doesn’t matter how “amazing” he is. If you’re putting all the work in now, imagine how much work you’re going to have to put in if you guys actually date? But tbh, if he’s making you chase him, you’re probs never going to date anyway, which is even worse.
2. He comments on multiple girls’ Instagram photos
You can’t get your panties in a knot about a dude who likes tons of girls’ Instagram photos. This is 2016, everyone likes each other’s Instagram photos. It’s no biggie. But a dude who comments, specifically if he comments shit like “damnn” or “sexy” or smiley emojis, is bad news.
3. He never texts you first… unless it’s past 2 a.m.
He’s not “bad at texting,” he’s just bad at texting you. Unless of course he needs his dick sucked, then suddenly he’s an amazing texter! Funny how that works, right?
4. He has nothing good to say about his ex
It’s easy to dismiss a dude’s ex girlfriend as “crazy” because he says she is. But in reality, any guy who calls his ex crazy is actually the crazy one. Steer clear of him.
5. He asks for nudes and keeps persisting when you say no
Why would you ever want to be with a dude who pressures you to do shit that you don’t want to? You should honestly never send nudes if a guy repeatedly asks you, because that means that you’re not doing it for you.
6. He disappears from your life for weeks at a time
It’s not quite ghosting, so you figure it’s fine and he’s just busy. But no, it’s actually called “haunting” or “benching,” which are both even worse than ghosting. Find someone who makes you a priority, not an option.
7. You’ve never hung out soberly
No, waking up together the morning after a drunken hook-up doesn’t count.
