5 Ways To Spice Up Your Love Life This Summer
After coming off a high of Love Island USA – Nicolandria Nation to be more specific, we decided to come up with some tips to help the girlies add a little spice in their love lives this summer, which can be way easier than you thought. From getting out of your shell to making small adjustments in your everyday routine, there’s no way you won’t have an elite line up of suitors beating down your block, just in time for Fall. So without further ado, let’s get into Galore’s top 7 ways to spice up your love life summer 2025 and beyond.
Figure Out Your Dating Goals
Are you ready for love? In the mood for a situation-ship or solely looking for a good time and not a long time? Whatever your needs are, figure out what romance looks like for you and determine how you want that to look this summer and beyond. Once you realize what you want, cutting people off that don’t align with your vision automatically becomes 10x easier. Never chase a man/woman, only attract by exuding positive energy and confidence that no one can take from you. When you’re pouring all the energy into yourself, you don’t have to worry about the losers flocking to you, only the best options you can attract.
Step Into Your New Era
Clean out old photos, revamp your social media and update your self-care routine, showing up as your highest self will allow you to feel amazing inside and out. At the end of the day, it’s not about changing yourself for a man but walking into a new era getting rid of old habits, low self-esteem and believing that you deserve nothing but the best in life. With a positive outlook and self-esteem, eventually all aspects of your life, including dating will reflect this new you.
Have Fun With Dating
If Nic and Olandria’s summer romance taught us anything this season, stepping out of your comfort zone and allowing love to find you is the key to overall happiness. If you don’t like going out, start taking yourself on lunch dates, hitting up a local happy hour or even grabbing a few friends and having a girls night. If you swore you’d never try dating apps, give yourself a deadline on how long you’ll give it a try, just to say you did it. If you struggle with talking to men/women, practice sparking up small talk with strangers or maintaining eye contact when someone looks your way. Whatever it is, dating is supposed to be fun not stressful, dramatic or toxic., Be smart, safe and most of all, have a good time on your new journey!
How To Maintain Your Aura While Dating
Many of us, especially those of you 20 something’s, have crashed out over a man/woman before but the key to maintaining your aura and the upper hand in the dynamic is by keeping your emotions in check. Creators like Shera 7 does great with teaching you how to control your emotions and the goals you should have in mind while dating. Matching energy, keeping things light and not over-investing, EVER will take you farther than you can imagine. If you feel like you’re doing too much or are uncertain about how he/she feels about you, pull back and reclaim your time girl.
Enjoy Your New Love Life
Instead of worrying about if it will last, what your wedding dress is going to look like and picking out baby names, look your best and give it your best shot. I feel like for most of us, we jump the gun once our feelings get involved so kindly checking yourself and allowing things to flow will make your dating experience great just because you’re allowing yourself to live in the moment, regardless of the outcome. Keep him/her on their toes by not being boring/predictable and allow romance to CONSUME you, because you f*cking deserve it!
Writer: Taylor Winter Wilson (@taylorwinter)
Cover Art: Carlos Graciano (@sadpapi666)
