Why Silly Boys Are Better Than Sexy Boys

Have you ever gone out with a guy that seemed like he was nearly perfect, but you can’t bring yourself to like him? If you printed out his resume, your parents would tell you to get married now and your friends would be jealous, but then you’re just not feeling it? When it comes down to it, it might be because while he’s got a six figure salary and the jaw bone of a model, he can’t make you laugh.


1. It Will Last Forever

No, not your relationship (I mean…maybe?), but we all know that looks fade. As much as we don’t want to face the fact that Leonardo looked way better in his Titanic days then he does now (hello, dad bod?), it’s plain old facts. If you’re looking for a one night stand, no shame in going for the best looking guy in the room. But, if you’re looking for more, someone who can make you laugh will likely always be able to make you laugh.

2. It’s Harder To Come By

As much as we like to deny it, there are plenty of eligible fish in the sea. Take a walk down the street and you’ll probably spot at least five hotties, 10 dudes with good paying jobs, and 15 guys who are checking you out. However, everyone has a different sense of humor, and if you’re like me, not just anyone can make you crack a smile.

3. It Makes Sex Better

You’re probably wondering how a guy’s comical abilities transfers into the bedroom. Trust me, it does! We all have awkward moments in bed (whether we admit them or not), if your guy can laugh them off and make you laugh about them too, it’s a win-win for everyone! Plus, nothing is more beautiful then simultaneously kissing someone while laughing, it’s just a fact.

4. Your Friends Will Love Him 

If a guy is funny, he can immediately win over a crowd (as long as it’s not pretentious sarcasm). While the Spice Girls were a little off in saying “if you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,” you know that your girl’s approval means a lot when deciding if this dude could be a potential boo. A guy who’s funny can easily bond with anyone, and your friends will soon be begging you to bring him out with you guys instead of pestering you for a girl’s night.

5. He Will Brighten Your Days

Any good boyfriend is supposed to brighten your days, but they don’t always do such a good job. Sure, most dudes aren’t going to greet you every day with roses, but making you crack a big smile after a long day at the office is never a bad thing.

6. They’re Creative

It’s hard to be funny if you’re not creative and/or observant. Both qualities are definitely things you want in a significant other. After all, creative and observant means he’ll probably notice what you like in bed and try some new tricks to get you off…

7. He’s Special… To You

Maybe you’ve got a thing for poop jokes, maybe your sarcasm is too sophisticated for most of your suitors. Either way, if a guy can make you laugh, it’s something special. Whether he cracks up the entire room or you’ve got inside jokes with him for days, it’s something that will keep your relationship between the two of you in a non-creepy or sexual way. And surprisingly, there is more to a relationship than really good sex.

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