Tons of Guys Are Down To Start a Relationship From a One Night Stand
The whole “dating structure” has really shifted in the last couple of years, but our mindsets still haven’t.
So many women still wonder if hooking up on a first date will ruin their chances of turning their one night stand into something more. But this actually isn’t the case.
Sure, it’s kind of weird to see a guy naked before you even fully comprehend what he does for a living, but that doesn’t mean a relationship can’t come out of it. After all, it means you already got the awkward part out of the way.
You may not like it, but it’s kind of how dating is shifting, particularly with college students. In American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus, by Lisa Wade, she found that most students slept with a partner before going on a real date with them. Millennials also fall into this category, and the same Match survey found that they are 48% more likely to go all the way before a first date.
Obviously, if you’re not into sleeping with a guy you hardly know, you don’t have to. But if you wanna get it in on the first date, don’t hold yourself back because you worry about a guy “losing respect for you.” If a guy has to use some BS respect-centric excuse for not hitting you up again, it simply means that he’s an a-hole.