How To Seek Revenge On The Guy Who Ghosted You
Ghosting: done by many, enjoyed by no one. You meet a boy, maybe sleep with him, spend all day and night texting for weeks and then almost out of nowhere…he disappears…LIKE A GHOST. You’re left wondering what happened to make homeboy pull a Houdini. Did he find someone else? Did he get back with his crazy ex? Did you say something wrong? Maybe he’s just not interested anymore. But, why?! And how can you remain calm, cool, and collected despite the whirlwind of emotions (mainly anger) you’re experiencing?
First, you can just accept the fact all guys are assholes. My favorite piece of advice to ghosted girls: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Many guys have told me that fucking a dude’s best friend is the most effective form of revenge. But you’re classier than that (hopefully), and know that the real revenge lies in him not knowing what the hell you’re up to. So, find a new bar to go to, take a hottie home and don’t tell anyone.
Next up, put your phone down! Stop looking at Instagram every 5 minutes to see if he’s been tagged in another girl’s photo. He probably hasn’t. And if he has, he’s already removed the tag from his profile…typical ghost. If he wants to talk to you, he will. There’s no need to hit him up trying to be the chill girl acting like everything’s fine. Leave him alone, because he left your ass alone and he doesn’t deserve your ass!
He’ll come back though, because ghosts always come back to haunt you. That doesn’t give you the green light to jump back in bed with him, seriously. If he’s ghosted you once, he’ll do it again. But if you lose your will power, remember to detach yourself emotionally and enjoy the ghost for what he is—a good lay.