How To Kick Him To The Curb
In this day and age of technology, it seems like there are almost too many ways to communicate. However, most people get to have the luxury of taking the easy way out of most situations through this technology. I literally have friends who will ignore a phone call, only to text the person a minute later saying “what’s up? you called?” And while it’s easy to use technology to your advantage in this way, it doesn’t mean that it’s right. Girls (and sometimes guys) seem to always be complaining about how some member of the opposite sex won’t leave them alone, but they never seem to have told them that they weren’t interested.
It’s really not that hard, I promise. Put yourself in their shoes. What if you were super into somebody and they stopped responding to your texts out of nowhere? You’d probably want to assume that it was an accident and maybe text them again, or hit them up on snapchat, only to be ignored again and feel utterly embarrassed. How about that person who always says you two are going to hang out, but every time you suggest a date or a plan they come up with a different reason why they’re “busy.” At what point do you know to stop trying?
Next time you don’t want to see a guy again after a first date, need to get rid of the guy you accidentally made out with at the bar last weekend, or need tell the honest truth to your friend that’s been trying to get out of the friend zone forever, stick to something simple. Next time they ask to hang out again, just say something like;
“I think you’re a really nice/cool/funny/sexy guy, but I think we would be better as friends!”
Sure, it might sound like cliche bullshit, but any guy will appreciate being told that you’re not interested up front, before he goes on trying. If you don’t want to pull the typical “better as friends” line, you could say “I’m not ready for a relationship right now” or another variation that would put the blame on you. (Although, if he’s persistent, he might not take this as a no)..
It might seem a lot easier to just keep ignoring a guy or giving uninterested responses until he takes a hint, but if there’s one thing I’ve heard from EVERY guy I’ve talked to about dating, it’s this. Stop stringing them along, ladies!