Life is pretty pointless when you think about it. What’s the point? For me it’s all about what feels good. And even things that feel good seem to last temporarily. Like eating, sex, that high you get while shopping… It’s all about the next big thing. Who wants the same thing forever? The only things I don’t get tired of is: money, family and myself. Everything else can come and go, especially when it comes to boys.
Now I am young and still learning but I can’t keep a guy for more than six months. Either I become disinterested or he does too. Then the next best thing comes along and it’s a never-ending cycle. Don’t get me wrong I love life and the emotions that come along with it. But what is the point of something like marriage when as beings on this Earth we always want the next best thing. I mean especially men… They’re often enticed by someone prettier, more successful, “better”…women too. Is that why so many marriages fail? Someone within is bored and looking for the next chapter with someone else?
I’ve heard many women (and men) whisper “never get married”. They end up staying together because of children, god, finances or the fear of being alone. Smiling to their spouse but feeling unsatisfied inside. Now this isn’t everyone. I am pretty sure there are two people out there on the same wavelength who are crazy about each other. I can only hope for someone like that. But for now, I don’t see the point.
Is hookup culture officially over? Maybe not officially (because some of us still just want some quick d), but a recent study conducted by Bumble definitely contradicts our conceptions about online/app dating. Bumble originally set out to be a safe place for women to create meaningful and empowering connections, through Bumble, Bumble BFF, and Bumble
Now, we all know that sometimes a sexy selfie is the best way to get bae to come home ASAP — but is it the safest thing to do? Sometimes it’s important to take a step back and think about the privacy settings on your phone and on the apps you use. Maybe it’s time
Navigating jealousy issues in the digital age is hard enough when your only Instagram followers are people you know IRL. But imagine if you and your boo had legions of fans, regularly posted half-naked “fistpo” photos, and your relationship was open? Sounds borderline impossible to stay sane under those circumstances, right? But somehow, that’s exactly what
Whether preparing for a fire drill, earthquake, or booty call, failing to plan may in some cases be planning to fail. Definitely for the former two. At the very least though, you want to be in a place where you feel good, prepared, and chill so that you can enjoy your experience more. I figured
