Life is pretty pointless when you think about it. What’s the point? For me it’s all about what feels good. And even things that feel good seem to last temporarily. Like eating, sex, that high you get while shopping… It’s all about the next big thing. Who wants the same thing forever? The only things I don’t get tired of is: money, family and myself. Everything else can come and go, especially when it comes to boys.
Now I am young and still learning but I can’t keep a guy for more than six months. Either I become disinterested or he does too. Then the next best thing comes along and it’s a never-ending cycle. Don’t get me wrong I love life and the emotions that come along with it. But what is the point of something like marriage when as beings on this Earth we always want the next best thing. I mean especially men… They’re often enticed by someone prettier, more successful, “better”…women too. Is that why so many marriages fail? Someone within is bored and looking for the next chapter with someone else?
I’ve heard many women (and men) whisper “never get married”. They end up staying together because of children, god, finances or the fear of being alone. Smiling to their spouse but feeling unsatisfied inside. Now this isn’t everyone. I am pretty sure there are two people out there on the same wavelength who are crazy about each other. I can only hope for someone like that. But for now, I don’t see the point.
I’ve recently experienced the semi-new millennial dating phenomenon that’s leaving me with a blow to my fragile ego – ghosting. It isn’t totally new, and it happens everyday to the baddest of bitches, but it still threw me way off guard. If you’re behind on lingo, “ghosting” is a term used for when the person
It’s honestly cringey af most times you step foot in a sex shop – the employees are usually clueless and unhelpful, and you leave feeling almost dirty about trying to enjoy one of life’s greatest pleasures (Aka sex. Keep up, here). I’d love to go buy a sex toy in-store without feeling like I was
Hi there! *taps on mic* We’re all familiar with sex *points at no one in particular* she gets it. Did you know that sex is a really fun thing that a lot of people enjoy? But you can’t have sex all the time, because then when would you eat, or watch “Viceland,” or read Galore
Bawse Kitty is a lifestyle contributor who writes about sex, dating, being a woman, and more. This is her column, Kitty’s Korner. Throughout my blogging, I have taken many breaks, and have also gone through many streaks. Blogging is how I’ve gotten most of my following, and how I have been able to remain relatable to
