Booty Call Vs Dating: Know The Signs

So you’ve met this amazing guy. He is charming, handsome, funny and seems really into you. A couple of dates go by and you slip up and give him the goods earlier than you intended. Now you aren’t sure of his intentions. Dating can be very confusing. Here’s how to tell whether you’re dating or just a booty call:

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Dating: Even after you’ve both gotten intimate you still go out places. The plans to visit that amazing restaurant downtown still stands. He doesn’t only just talk about it. You two actively make plans that he follows through on without anything sexual involved.

Booty Call: All of a sudden he isn’t really up for going to that new restaurant downtown or anywhere for that matter. You’re both stuck at his place watching Netflix that almost always leads to sex.

Dating: He calls you to spend time before 9 pm (unless for dinner or a movie).

Booty call: All of a sudden he’s so busy during the day. He only has time to see after 11 pm. Now that you think of it, you haven’t seen him during the day light hours in a very long time.

Dating: You’ve spent the day together and it’s getting very late. He’s having a great time with you there and wants you to stay the night. It’s something about waking up to your beau in the morning that is amazing. Cuddle time.

Booty call: You guys have just finished having sex and suddenly something has come up. He’s hinting for you to leave. Now you recall that he always has something to do right after you guys have sex. Hmmm…red flag!

Dating: Does he message or call you consistently to just talk? Does he ask you how you’ve been if you haven’t spoken in a while? Does he tell you he’s eager to see you again? He may be looking for something more out of your relationship.

Booty Call: Does he text the dreaded words “Come Through,” once or every other week? He doesn’t ask how you’ve been. He doesn’t know much about you because he doesn’t ask anymore. He could care less, he just wants you over to “chill”.

Dating: His family is having a function and he invites you. I would hope he wouldn’t just invite some random girl he wasn’t really that into. Has he introduced you to his friends? He may be making plans for you two to be something more.

Booty Call: You’ve never met any of his family. Matter of fact, you don’t even know if he has siblings or if his parents are still together. Your conversations haven’t even gotten that deep. You may have met his friends but they see you as one of the guys or already know you’re temporary. Yep, you might not be around for long.

Dating: He is optimistic about the future and is enjoying getting to know you more. He says he would like a relationship when it is time. You aren’t in a rush and neither is he. But, it feels like you guys are already together. You both already do a lot of couple stuff.

Booty Call: If he flat out says he doesn’t want a relationship you better believe you are temporary. He doesn’t talk about any future plans or feelings for you. Two words: booty call.

Hope this has helped someone. As a girl it can be hard to figure out how a man feels about you, especially since so many play games to get what they want. And even when a man isn’t playing games and telling us like it is, we have hope that he is “the one” or has potential. A man only puts in work for something he truly wants and even then he can only want you temporarily. Know the signs before your feelings get wrapped up too tight because he might already be planning his escape.

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