Before You Become A Bitter B*tch
Love has left a few of us hopeless romantics a little bitter and cynical. It’s not easy to have hope when everyone so far has let us down. But guess what? The beat goes the f*ck on. Here are 3 things to remember before you swear off love completely:
You haven’t dated all men (or women). Yes it seems that everyone is the “same” but we are all individuals. We all have different experiences, emotions, reactions… So it’s not fair to categorize all. There are billions of people on this planet and there are still some “one in a millions” out there.
It’s not exactly fair to punish everyone for a few negative experiences you’ve had with other people. I believe in the law of attraction and I feel that your mindset does affect what you attract. If you think all men are dogs then all the men that come in your life just may be dogs. So from now, look at each new person as a new unique experience.
Sometimes you have to look in the mirror. I mean you are the common denominator in every social experience you have. I’m not saying blame yourself, but you set the tone for how others will treat you. You can look at various friends and see how they’re treated. People who often stand their ground don’t normally get trampled all over.
People-pleasers normally get the short end of the stick. So with each new situation try something new. Try saying no. Try calling some of the shots. Maybe things will go your way.
Lastly, remember that life still goes on. You haven’t lived your entire life yet. You might meet the love of your life tomorrow. In a couple of hours, you might meet the most beautiful person you’ve ever seen inside and out. Who knows! Most of us are still young so you can’t judge everyone based off the few experiences you’ve had with people who are still growing. We are all still growing and learning. Remember that.
So, before you become a bitter b*tch and swear off love for eternity. Relax, let the past be the past. And remember those three things: not everyone is the same, reflect and move on.