4 Things Your F*ck Buddy Needs To Know About You
Whether you’re banging your best guy friend, or booty-calling the bartender from uptown, f*ck buddies can be tricky. You’re scared to get to know them too well, because you don’t want to develop feelings if things aren’t going anywhere. But, at the end of the day, he’s still putting his penis in your vagina, and it might be nice if he knows some sh*t about you besides your name and where you live (if he even knows that).
You don’t need to confess your darkest sins and deepest dreams to each other, but you need to educate this dude about what you want and where you want it. If you don’t know how to relay the information to him without sounding weird? Isn’t that what text messaging is for?
1. How You Get Yourself Off
Do you love the ‘public’ section on porn hub? Or do you find yourself turning to your copies of 50 Shades of Grey instead? Whatever tickles your fancy, your booty call should know about (unless it’s like really freaky…then maybe wait a little on that). How is your man going to know that you like to be tied up and spanked if you never tell him? Yeah, he’s not.
2. When You Want It
Is morning sex your thing? Or would you rather pass on the bad breath and lethargic motions? The sooner your dude knows when you like to bang, the less awkward conversations you’ll have when trying to avoid giving a blowjob at seven in the morning.
3. Your Sex Bucket List
Have you always been itching to try a threesome? Or a teacher-student role-play? Maybe you just really need to lose your anal virginity. A good f*ck buddy will want to help you try all the things you haven’t experienced yet, and you can do the same for him.
4. Your Boundaries
As awesome as it is that you’re willing to try lots of your man’s sexual fantasies, he should also know when to stop. If you’re into BDSM, always have a safe word. If you like when he brings other chicks into bed, but you want to approve them first, make sure he knows that. The best sex in life comes from two people being comfortable with each other. While f*ck buddy terrain is still rocky, it’s better to get some good footing before you dive right in (pun intended).